i actually did it, i called it off. i thought telling him and all my friends and family would be the hardest part, or maybe getting rid of the dress...but no, giving back the ring was the hardest, most awful thing i have ever had to do.

i registered for china and silver, only because of pressure from the in-laws. and i got about 4 plates and some forks. yeah, um, what am i supposed to do with that?? so, they sit in their boxes. unused.

if my boyfriend proposes, i fear it will be the end of our relationship, because i will say no.

I have all three men in my life...my fiancee is my best friend, my lover, and my soulmate. I get everything I need out of him, friendship, sex, AND love.

It is possible.

Yay! I got a most beautiful engagement ring for Christmas. Now I can confess here. :)

I liked "the conscious bride." I LOVED "altared." Check it out.

Dear family and friends,

ONLY the people whose names are on the invite are invited to come. That means that your kids, your best friend, your neighbor, and your flavor-of-the-month are not invited and not welcome.

Yes, I have seen all of those... and yes, if I see you respond "attending" for more people then were actually invited, I will call you up and set you straight.

No love, irritated mother of the bride

When does the honeymoon phase end?

When you stop making your marriage first priority.

OMG I just got engaged and I looove my ring. 2.5 ct. thin platinum band, Tacori, it is perfect and I love it. How could anyone get angry over something so beautiful?

My best friend just got engaged!